Basking In the Glow and Praying Expectantly

     Even as I prepare for Easter weekend I am basking in the glow of Palm Sunday weekend. 

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12 brand new adult believers  came forward to be drenched in the waters of baptism.

Over 600 worshippers showed up to circle our two worship spaces  and children's areas to pray for for an outpouring of God's spirit upon all area places of worship for Easter Weekend.

And then there was the Easter Egg Hunt Extravaganza. I love this event because my only responsibility is to show up and watch God work and there was much to see last Sunday afternoon! Scores of willing servants hosted local communities for two hours of fun, all in the name of Jesus, and a great time was had by all. After the last egg had been found and grounds cleaned up, close to a hundred servants stayed for Easter training and drama rehearsal not leaving until after 8:00 PM.

God was glorified in many excellent ways last weekend. Thank you church family! You are an amazing people.

Soon we will gather in homes for Communion, walk through the Journey to the Cross , assemble for Good Friday Worship and then it will be time to shout “He is Risen!” on Easter weekend. I can hardly wait!

I have been praying expectantly each morning for the guests you are inviting to Easter worship. God has convinced me that the Easter message should be especially directed to your unchurched family and friends. Please take advantage of this rare opportunity. Your family and friends are waiting for an invitation. Most of them, even the reluctant and the doubters, want to be invited. People like being invited even they cannot or will not attend because everyone desires to be wanted. Everyone likes to be included.

In fact, that is why God sent his son into the world, to invite us into a relationship with himself through the Resurrected Christ and include us in what he is doing throughout the world. Invite. Invite. And invite some more.

I am eager to shout with each of you and your guests this weekend  ”He Is Risen!”

I am praying for you. Please pray for me

Peace,

Rick

Grace Place

“I was told I couldn’t attend worship if I was wearing a belly ring.” “No one ever spoke to me so I thought, why bother.” “The messages were boring and irrelevant.” “I was pregnant, not married, told it would look better if I attended worship with a man so I didn’t look like a ‘XXXXX.’” “I was told belly rings not allowed.” “I felt judged.” “I don’t need to attend church to be close to God.” “Why would intelligent people buy into a mythological god in order to avoid a mythological place called hell for a mythological place called heaven? It is all nonsense.” “Hypocrites! When obese people stop judging homosexuals and examine their own sin I might return to church. Of course that will be when hell freezes over. So…..”


These are just a sampling of the 100 plus responses I received from the face book survey many of you helped me employ. Many of the responses reflect the bias or issues of the individual but I am sad to say many of them are a true reflection of The Church. We are going to learn about what the cross, The Crux, has to say about grace this weekend. I look forward to sharing what God is teaching me in hopes more and more we can be thought of as a grace place.

To that end, please remember the Holy Call to Action. This weekend you will receive a card to help your Easter invitations. A digital version will be posted on the website by Monday, March 18th. We will also send you a link in an ENews letter shortly thereafter.

It is not too late to begin to visiting with those you want to invite, even praying for them by name in your personal prayer time. Remember to reserve Sunday, March 24th, 12:15 – 12:45 PM to be at the church for a minimum 500 people prayer circle. Then come back that same day for the Easter Egg Hunt. Let’s start off Holy Week worshipping, praying and serving the community.

I am praying for you. Please pray for me.

Peace,

Rick

Holy Week Call to Action

1) March 24, Palm Sunday, 12:15 Prayer Circle

2) Holy Thursday (March 28) Communion, in homes

3) Good Friday and Journey to the Cross (March 29)

4) Commit to Baptism and or Church Membership

5) Invite people to the Easter Party, March 30-31

6) Serve and Attend Easter Saturday Night Worship

God Messengers, Rebranding & Easter

Wow! Praise be to God! Your response to serve as “God Messengers” as we plan, prepare and host all of our Holy Week activities, climaxing with five exiting life changing Easter Worship Celebrations was tremendous! Our cup runneth over with blessing. I continue to be in awe of your commitment to the mission and extremely grateful to be one of your ministry partners. Every weekend God is allowing us to witness life change among both the lost and the found. God’s favor is obviously upon us so I thank God for his blessing but I thank you for your commitment to the mission.


In the past few weeks you have heard a little about the session’s prayer led decision to begin a process that would lead to us embracing a new name. A rebranding team was created last fall for the purpose of helping us develop and work through a process that would allow us to seek and discern God’s revelation for the name. Understandably, there are many questions and emotions surrounding such a bold decision. Please allow me to answer a few of those questions as we continue to process, dialogue and together seek God’s revelation.

Why are we changing our name?

The short answer is a different name will allow us to reach people for Jesus who for various reasons when hearing of or seeing our name, quickly decide without knowing our DNA that we are another irrelevant institutional church. Our name alone, without chance of a lengthy conversation, has little if any appeal to the lost, unchurched or younger families new to the area.

I thought we were doing pretty well. Are we trying to be a mega church?

We are trying to be obedient to the biblical mandate of the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20) and our purpose statement. God has been good to us. By his grace, your hard work and generosity, we have witnessed a bountiful harvest, but as Jesus left the 99 to seek after the one, we feel compelled to do the same. We are to be ever pushing to be a mission outpost, a mash unit on the battlefield of life for people who do not know Jesus and or who have been hurt or turned off by institutional religion.

Isn’t rebranding expensive?

Signage, vans, business cards and letterhead are expensive, but regardless of the name change, we will soon be spending money on these items and others anyway. Our signs are tired, ineffective, dated and need to be relocated. Our vans are on their last leg and the bus logo is fading. Letterhead and business cards are cyclical and we are coming up the restocking cycle for each of these disposable items. And yes, communicating to the public who knows the name St. Matthew Cumberland Presbyterian church will require expenditures, but mission work is always messy, exhausting and expensive.

Will I get a vote? What is the process? When is all of this going to happen?

According to our church government, the only “local” church wide vote is for the elders and deacons who are charged with leading the body in the fulfillment of the mission in accordance with our denominational polity and theology. There is no set time frame. We are very early in the process and want to give you time to catch up mentally, emotionally and spiritually. The smaller the plane, the smaller runway needed to get the aircraft off the ground. This is a big plane, so the run way will be lengthy. I anticipate after Easter and throughout the summer there will be more opportunities for church wide conversations with the session and rebranding team. A consistent communication plan to the body is being designed as well as a way to receive your suggested names. The Rebranding Team will create focus groups from non St. Matthew worshippers to give us feedback on our current and proposed names. Eventually the Rebranding Team will propose a short list to the body and the session. The session will vote on a name and then take our request to Presbytery for approval.

Are we leaving the denomination?

There are no plans or intentions to leave the denomination.

I want to know more. I want to help. I want to share my thoughts and feelings. How do I do that?

By Monday, March 4th, there will be Rebranding Link on the front page of the website listing contact info for the Rebranding Team and the Session. You may also contact me or any other staff member. This is a huge change and we want to help you process anyway we can.

I am going to set aside my focus on this endeavor for a few weeks so I can zero in on Holy Week and Easter. I urge you to do the same. The Holy Spirit is moving and we have a tremendous opportunity forthcoming to reach many for Christ. I look forward to working side by side with you now and for years to come as together we strive to…. “glorify God by sharing the love and grace of Jesus with as many people as we can.”

Your session is praying for you. Please pray for your session.

Peace,

Rick

I Love Our Church Name But.........

I love our church name “St. Matthew,” but it is not about me! On December 6, 2011, our session made and unanimously passed a recommendation to change our name so that we might better fulfill our purpose; “Glorify God by sharing the love and grace of Jesus Christ with as many people as we can.”

I love our church name “St. Mathew, “but it is not about me! Our session has been discussing this idea for many years so I was not surprised by the recommendation and vote but I was surprised by my surfacing emotions. I spoke for the recommendation but immediately began to grieve the forth coming loss of a name that marks some of the most important experiences in my life; my first full time pastorate, the site of my ordination, where our children were raised, baptized and professed their faith. Under the name “St. Mathew” I have presided at scores of marriages, baptisms, and funerals. At “St. Mathew” I learned how to be a godly man, husband and father. At “St. Matthew” friendships were built that will last a life time and at “St. Matthew” I have been a part of a family that has impacted the world for Christ in our own backyard and across the seas.

I love our church name “St. Matthew,” but it is not about me! For many reasons, to be shared in a future blog, the full name “St. Matthew Cumberland Presbyterian Church” carries numerous connotations that are a stumbling block to those we are trying to reach, the unchurched and those who do know Jesus. Witnesses inside and outside the church prove this to be true so your session formed a Rebranding Team in August 2012 to begin the renaming process.

I love our church name “St. Matthew”, but it is not about me! After processing with several groups of people my grief has passed and I am excited about the prospects of our new name. I am convinced that it is God’s timing, God’s idea and God’s favor that has led us to this season in our journey.

Soon the Rebranding Team made up of Jeff Ogden chair, Arlen Fuhlendorf, Sherri Sechrist, Will Johnson, Liz Mitchell, Bill Whatley, Lana Horadam, Cheyenne Davis, Josh Fortney and Nedra Lamar will be inviting you into the conversation and discernment process. Together, joined in prayer and stimulating conversation, we will seek God’s name for His Church so we might fulfill the mission he has placed before us. How long will the process take? Only God knows. What will be the process be? Will be shared in a forth coming blog.

Yes, I love our church name, but more than loving the name “St. Matthew “ I love who we are, our DNA, our identity, our heart, our passion and our mission for reaching the lost. And I am eager to move into this next season of our existence so that future generations will be even more effective at fulfilling our purpose; “Glorify God, by sharing the love and grace of Jesus Christ with as many people as we can!”

I love our church name, but it is not about me, it is not about you, it is about God's mission placed before us.

I am praying for you. Please pray for me. And pray for our Rebranding Team and Session as they lead us through us this season of exciting change and possibility.

Peace,

Rick

Its A Miracle!

God wants to birth a miracle through you. “What? I’m not qualified. I don’t know much about the bible and I have lots of doubts about how all of this God thing works. There has to be someone more worthy and qualified than me.” Don’t sweat it. God doesn’t need your ability. God simply needs your availability so God can work the miracle through you.

Jesus said….”Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him.” Jesus was speaking of the Holy Spirit, the same Holy Spirit that conceived the miracle of Jesus in Mary’s womb indwells in every devoted Jesus follower. God births miracles through ordinary people.

Jesus was ordinary. Isaiah said…”He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him.” Does that sound like the profile of a world movement leader to you?

Most of us can relate to being ordinary. From the time we are children we become cruelly proficient in developing a social pecking order. Who is cool, smart and beautiful and who is not is often determined in the first weeks of kindergarten by the natural leader and the class clown.

Jesus himself was at the bottom of the pecking order. He came from the lowest socioeconomic class and a speck in the road community called Nazareth. Jesus would have never made People’s magazine list of top fifty beautiful people in the world or been listed in his high school year book as the most likely to do anything.

Throughout Scripture God chooses ordinary unqualified people to do miracles like the ineloquent Moses, child David, barren Elizabeth, a teenager named Mary and a day laborer named Joseph. God unleashes his extraordinary power through ordinary people to perform miracles that change the world. I don’t know about you but that is great news because I am about an ordinary as they get!

But to be used to birth a miracle, we must be willing to be used and to pay the price. Grace is free but it is not cheap and the birth of a miracle is always costly. Ostracism, rejection, changing your plans are just some of the costs of birthing God’s miracle. Becoming pregnant with God’s son was not the miracle for which Mary and Joseph had been hoping and certainly not before they were married.

At Christmas we celebrate the birth of a Messiah who was born not only to die sacrificially on the cross but to show us how to live sacrificially. Sacrifice is not a pleasant word. It makes some of us uncomfortable and most folks would rather have a holly jolly Christmas than to give themselves as a “womb” for an honest to God Christmas miracle, and yet we cannot separate the manger from the cross.

I received an email several years ago that said…”I cannot take another Birthday Gift to Jesus Christmas so our family is going to search for another church home that celebrates Christmas more like the traditional Christmas we know.”

How biblical is the “Christmas we know?” Most of our Christmas traditions start with little biblical truth. Even our Christmas Carols are sanitized versions of a rather traumatic event….”The cattle are lowing the baby awakes, the little Lord Jesus no crying he makes.” Yeah right! Who can relate to a newborn who doesn’t cry? The biblical Christmas was a snapshot of poverty and anxiety not good warm fuzzies. I don’t blame the former member, because we have all grown up with those feel good Santa Claus Jesus Christmases where we are oblivious to God’s heart for those who suffer in our own backyard and to the ends of the earth.

The miracle of Christmas is about a sacrificial gift. It is easy to get excited about a newborn warmly wrapped in a manger bed of straw but the cradle comes with a cost. You cannot separate the cradle from the cross. The cross is the center of the entire Christian message including the message of Christmas.

Jesus call to follow him in the way of the cross challenges every Christmas tradition and value we hold to be truth. Miracles do not appear out of thin air like magic. We will not receive and deliver God’s miracle unless we are ready and willing to pay the cost.

Christmas is about a miracle and miracles don’t just happen. They are born through the pains of labor. Pain is not comfortable, but if we are willing to go through it, God will conceive and deliver a miracle through us. If we do all that we can, God will do what we can’t.

One week from today we will assemble for Christmas Eve worship. Have you stepped out of your comfort zone yet and invited someone to join you for Christmas Eve worship? Two Christmas Eve’s ago I was pulling out to get ready for worship when I stopped to speak to one neighbors while they were checking their mail box. As I drove off I did the uncomfortable and invited them to Christmas Eve worship. Their response: ”I thought you were never going to ask. We would love too!” People are waiting for your invitation.

And have you set aside or yet determined the offering you will bring to celebrate Jesus birthday? Have you sacrificially down sized your own Christmas so that God can use you to birth a miracle? Are you prepared to give a financial gift to Jesus that at least matches the value of the gifts you are giving to family and friends? Are you ready to take the next step and acknowledge by your sacrifice that Christmas is not your birthday?

Yes, God performs miracles through ordinary people like you and me, but like Mary and Joseph, we must be willing to commit to the pains of labor so that God can do the impossible through us.

Invite your family, friends, neighbors and bring your sacrificial offering, Birthday Gift to Jesus, on Christmas Eve. Then get ready for the miracle God will perform through you into the lives of people you know and love and even to those who dwell in Ethiopia, Nicaragua and Mexico.

Are you ready for God to birth a miracle through you? I am!!

Christmas Eve Worship

3:00 PM Contemporary, Family Friendly

5:00 PM Contemporary

7:00 PM Traditional

Merry Christmas,

Rick

Come Home for Christmas

“Then the Lord said to me, ‘Go and love your wife again, even though she commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the Lord still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them.” (Hosea 3:1)

Christmas is the anticipated time of year when family members gather from different corners of the country and beyond to celebrate the best of what we hold dear in our relationships. Yet for some, it can also represent the ominous presence of past hurts and even current relational pain, making Christmas depressing or lonely.

Dallas and I see Christmas as a great opportunity to celebrate the gift of family. All three of our boys will come home and join us in the parade of Christmas celebrations. Dallas and I are blessed to have parents who are flexible when we can show up for Christmas so we take turns from year to year who we are with on Christmas Day but over a three day period we will be in three different homes praying, eating, telling stories, laughing and exchanging gifts.

One of our favorite Christmas traditions is to huddle up like we used to when the boys were small and watch a movie together. Christmas Vacation is the annual movie of choice on Christmas Eve but in the days to come we will watch one or two others. Last year we watched the DVD “He’s Just Not That Into You.” The movie is about a young single woman named Gigi who is caught up in the cycle of superficial serial dating. Gigi repeatedly misreads comments and actions from her male dates as authentic interests. After each date, which tends to culminate in a brief bedroom encounter, Gigi returns home and obsessively sits by the phone, waiting for the call that never comes.

Everyone wants to know that he or she is important to someone. Remember how kids passed notes back and forth in grade school? “I like you. Do you like me” Check yes, no or maybe.” That’s because God created us for intimate, authentic relationships.

Unfortunately, we are all capable of compromising our most fundamental beliefs to make such intimate connections. Why else do people stay in abusive relationships or commit to others who have conflicting belief structures?

At some time in our lives, each of us will experience rejection. Whether we are young or old, rejection is painful. Whether it be on the school playground, the board room or the bed room, rejection makes a huge imprint in our development as persons. Is it any wonder that we learn early on to portray ourselves as being someone other than who we really are and create layers of emotional defenses to protect ourselves from relational pain?

Worse, our esteem deficiencies carry over into our relationships with God. Most of us have no problem believing in God but we struggling being secure of God’s belief in us. Do you ever think…”How can God believe in me? How could God ever possibly desire me?”… Most of us are pretty adept at hiding our imperfections and deficiencies from others while being fully aware that we can’t hide them from God.

So what do we do? Like Adam and Eve we run and hide from the sound of God’s approaching footsteps because we are ashamed. We create an emotional barrier between us and God. God is not emotionally detached or running from us. We run away from God.

Christmas is the heralding of God who comes to be with us. God is the one who pursues us. The Incarnation is the revelation of God’s scandalous love affair with humanity! Father God sends Jesus to invite us to come home for the family celebration!

One of the most passionate illustrations of God’s love affair with humanity is in the book of Hosea. God’s chosen people, Israel, had wandered from the Lord. Hosea described their wandering as the worse kind of infidelity and compared it to prostitution. God was saying “cheating” on him was killing the relationship. Jesus himself said…”You can’t have two lovers. You will always favor one over the other.” (Matthew 6:24)

But God demonstrates his unrelenting love for Israel by telling Hosea to go and marry a wife of “whoredom” and have children of “whoredom.” Can you imagine marrying someone you knew would be unfaithful and spending the rest of your life wondering if your children were really your own? Who would knowingly set themselves up for such a life of hell? God.

God’s love is not rational. God’s love makes no sense. Thank goodness beauty is in the eye of the beholder and when God looks at you, God’s heart pounds like a mom witnessing her son walk through the door at Christmas even though he has just spent days in jail for some heinous crime. And when that daughter shows up, the Father smiles from ear to ear even though she spurned his values and is living as a concubine with an ungodly man. That is what you call crazy, scandalous love.

And that is what you call Christmas. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son.” (John 3:16) I don’t know how you are being unfaithful to God or how far away you have drifted, but this I do know, with a scandalous love God is relentlessly pursuing, inviting you through his Son to come home, come home for Christmas.

Christmas Eve Worship

3:00 Family Friendly

5:00 Contemporary
7:00 Traditional

Rick

Who Does God Look Like?

Too often we view God like Santa Claus, a genie in a bottle here to fulfill our three wishes. All we have to do is name it and claim it, believe it and receive it. We have created a Santa Claus Jesus in our own image, a golden calf messiah who promises to fulfill all our earthly wants and wishes, an idol of consumption who supports the human quest for meaning and purpose in material things outside of a relationship with God.

Think of how we describe Santa…”He sees you when you are sleeping……He knows if you have been bad or good.” Our popular notion of Santa reflects the way we have reduced God to a mythical watchdog who judges our niceness or naughtiness and metes out rewards and punishment accordingly.  

This is not the God we see in Jesus. Jesus was not the messiah most people were expecting and hoping for. He did not come shimming down the chimney bearing gifts for good boys and girls.  God’s gifts cannot fit in a stocking but must be received in our hearts.  Neither does God leave a lump of coal  for those who have erred off the plan. “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn but to save.” (John 3:17)

This is important because the picture you have of God has everything to do with the shaping of your faith and values. If your picture of God is distorted, your life perspective will be skewed.  With this faulty image of Jesus as magical gift giver, it is no wonder our expectations of the Christmas season have become distorted. God doesn't do magic. Magic is an illusion, meant for entertainment and not for transformation. God came to work miracles in broken lives that live in a broken world.

The ideal magical Christmas experience is unattainable. We stress ourselves out and even go into debt to create that warm fuzzy feeling for both ourselves and our families, but that feeling doesn't last. The real meaning of Christmas gets lost in the chaotic clutter of shopping, spending, escalating debt, making exhausting preparations and building stacks of gifts that most of don’t want, don’t need and or will never use.   Anyone besides me have items in their closet from Christmas past that have never been worn?  In the chaos of the holiday season we miss the true gift, Emanuel, God with us.

Enjoy all of your family Christmas traditions, decorate, shop and bake. Take your children to see Santa and delight in the blessing of gift giving and gift receiving. At the same time, remember to teach an accurate and clear picture of who Jesus really is to your family.  Here are a few teaching points.

Everything about a Jesus life stood in stark contrast to our worldly priorities and values.  He arrived on the scene not in strength but in weakness.  He was born among an oppressed people, living his early years as a refugee in Africa eluding political genocide. He grew up in a working class family. As a man he lived in tension with organized religion.  He resisted the world’s obsessions with wealth, pleasure, power and recognition.  He identified with the weak, the powerless, the widow and the orphan.  He did not condemn but defended the sinner.He came to show us God as the perfect parent who offers us unconditional love and the encouragement to live a godly life. 

So who does God look like, Santa or Jesus? Like Jesus!  Jesus was the embodiment of God’s values and priorities.  He is Emmanuel, “God with us.”  In Jesus we see not only the face of God, but all the fullness of his humanity, who you and I are created to me. I can believe in a God who looks like Jesus.

Can you?  Santa does.

Peace,

Rick